Thursday, April 30, 2009

Grumblings of a Tired Mommy

With three small children a mother rarely finds  the blessed opportunity to take a nap. Rarely do children take naps at the same time, or take naps at all. Today with my dear sweet 7 week old asleep and my ever so stubborn 2 yr old napping - I knew I had to seize the opportunity myself to take a little snooze. But WHY WHY WHY is it beyond a 4 yr olds comprehension to understand the words "leave me alone!"?  

She woke me up 3 times to ask if she could paint. I told her every time she could paint after I was done with my nap. On the third time asking, I told her I wasn't done yet because she kept waking me up. To which she smartly replied "i've only woke you up 3 times"! I looked at the clock and realized that only 40 minutes had passed since my napping attempt began.  I told her to give me 5 more minutes and then I would come help her get some paint. "Ok I will count to 5 - 1,2,3,4,5 - it's been five minutes!"  So then I had a very brief lesson on the difference between 5 seconds and 5 minutes. Counting to 60 five time was beyond her capabilities...she was getting frustrated and I was already there. I finally yelled "LEAVE ME ALONE. FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DO!!!!!" 

She left the room and left me feeling extremely guilty for the tone of voice I used on her. But I heard her sifting through the drawer looking for the crayons and just as the guilt was fading away and I was fading into dreamland, I feel her breathing again on the back of my neck. "Mommy...." Too annoyed and too tired to lift my head to talk to her again I said "whaty......"  To which she demands I turn my head to look at her. So I finally do and she asks "what is this?" She's holding a bottle of white out. I knew the white was kept in the very top shelf of the kitchen cupboard... "where did you get that?" I asked her. She confirmed she had gotten it from the same location. I explained that it's not to play with and to put it away. She HAD to know what it was used for. I told her it was for covering up mistakes you make when writing and asked her again to put it away. 

She left the room again and bounded down the stairs. I then began to dream up all the different places I was going to find the white out if I stay in bed any longer. I tried giving her the benefit of the doubt, thinking she would be a good listener. But then I knew better. She is just four afterall....  My nap was over before it began!

***And as I am just finalizing this post, here she is pulling on my arm "Mom, can I paint?" AHHH!!!!!!

UPDATE - she is now painting and hasn't bothered me for 10 minutes. It's a record. If only I had gotten the stupid paints out an hour ago!

4 comments:

Becca said...

That was funny to read. I think we've all been there, but I don't feel guilty after I yell and tell Kaiyah to get out. Especially if she actually does get out and doesn't come back!

Farley Smiles said...

oh April...I've been there so many times, I feel your pain!

Jessica said...

That's when I would usually turn on the TV. One episode of Max and Ruby will give you at least 20 minutes.

Carrie and Jeff said...

Oh girl...I know exactly what you are going through...and I only have 2 kids. maybe I shouldn't have any more until owen is 6.